Escaping Domestic Violence

It's worth thinking now of what you might need should you decide to leave an abusive relationship in a hurry. Pack an emergency bag and hide it in a safe place in case you need to leave quickly. The following list is an idea of things you should pack and/or arrange if you’re thinking of leaving.

• Collect important paperwork; birth / marriage certificates, driving licences, benefit books, credit/store cards, anything you can think of and put them somewhere safe you can access them easily or give them to a friend for safekeeping

• Save money secretly whenever you can

• Find a secure place to go: friends, family, refuge

• Keep a supply of clothes and toiletries (including children's), hidden where you can get to them easily

• Make sure you have any medications, glasses or prescriptions you or your children may need

• Keep a spare set of house keys and car keys somewhere safe that you can access quickly

• Think about transport to get away - keep the number of a taxi firm and some cash handy

• Arrange a signal with a friend to let them know it is time to escape

• If possible go when your abuser is not around or create an excuse to slip away

• If you are taking children don't forget their favourite toy

• Call the Police: you have the right to protection